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01:32:26 am on October 18, 2005 | # |
Now here’s one of those posts I promised I wouldn’t post about, but here I go anyway. ((warning)) the following post is a T.M.I, i.e. “Too Much Information” entry.
When Kris and I met, I promised myself to God that I wouldn’t have sex with him unless we got married. Big lie. We had sex the second day we were together, heh. There goes the whole “waiting for the right time” sorta deal. I couldn’t help it, I knew I loved him right then and there, and there was just no way I wasn’t going to make love to him.
Anyhow, getting to the whole matter at hand with the bladder issue. Kris and I had sex so often, that I ended up getting a bladder infection because there were too many times that we had sex on the spur of the moment (in a car, on top of a washing machine, etc.) and Kris’s (ugh, you know…) wasn’t clean enough, and it ended up to where my (ugh, you know…) got infected. Experiencing a bladder infection is a horrible thing, and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I’m not going to go into the details, but let me put it this way, I had to pee every five minutes even though nothing came out.
It’s been three years since the bladder infection I had (actually, I had two infections in a row), and my bladder still isn’t right. I mean, I don’t get bladder infections any more, because Kris is very careful about being clean, but I believe that my bladder will never be the same again. My grandmother told me about this one time, the whole idea that once you have more than one bladder infection, your bladder is never quite as good as it used to be.
After some advice from my mom’s best friend Val (the same one I stayed with during hurricane Rita), I decided to buy some cranberry pills, and have been taking them for the past couple of days in order to help me so that I don’t have to pee in the middle of the night. Let me put it this way, for the past couple of nights, I’ve been able to sleep through an entire night without having to get up to go to the restroom, and it’s a wonderful thing I tell ya.
In addition to this, I am able to be more intimate with Kris (which is always a plus). You see, um, I don’t know how to put this, but Kris has a . . . ugh, large carrot?! His size has always been an issue since we’ve been married, and often, it can be quite irritating or painful because of my bladder situation. Ever since I’ve been taking the cranberry pills though, I haven’t been scared of doing it for fear of the pain that immediately follows. Thank God!
I know I should go to the doctor, but right now Kris and I don’t have the money. I’m not dying or anything, just needed to take some cranberry pills. Kris said, “Babe, you should take them non-stop for like two months and see what that does”. Of course, my bladder still isn’t perfect (it’s not like I leak or something, it’s just sensitive), but I do feel much better. Just thought I’d share this with you all.
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niki 12:53 pm on October 18, 2005 | # |
cranberry pills. ok noted for future reference! haha
trench 5:02 pm on October 18, 2005 | # |
bladder infections are very common with very active partners. I remember my ex’es always having bladder infections! It wasn’t cool. They had all these discharges and stuff. My wife still likes the occasional spur of the moment sex, but I guess its not often enough to cause her bladder discomfort.
Barb 9:04 pm on October 18, 2005 | # |
Bladder infections are pretty common, actually. Cranberry pills will help clean out your system and so will drinking cranberry juice. You should be fine after a week, but if it’s a recurring problem, then you should definitely see a doctor. Otherwise, see how you do with the cranberry for 7 to 10 days.
chele 9:41 pm on October 18, 2005 | # |
oh wow my daughter is having the same issue for the same reasons..
I think I will have her try these…
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courtney 10:46 pm on October 18, 2005 | # |
cranberry pills……*writing it down furiously*
Cymple 1:57 am on October 19, 2005 | # |
Interesting information.
laurie 3:08 am on October 19, 2005 | # |
we had sex the first night we met. I just KNEW we were gonna be together forever! And I had the exact same problem when we first started dating. It was rough. I only had one UTI, but man, I’ll never forget it. It’s definitely rough. And one of the reasons we don’t have relations now is because his carrot is quite large too, and I’m scared of it. bwah.
I can definitely relate.
Jorgeq 6:37 am on October 19, 2005 | # |
You were right about the whole “too much information” part….lol. But we’re all adults here…lol. I love cranberry juice but never really heard about the pills.
American Princess 8:33 am on October 19, 2005 | # |
Wow! Impressive story! I wish I had someone that I loved to have such an active sex life with.
You know I’ve never had an orgasm? It’s sad…but at least it makes me less interested in sex, so I don’t “give it up” to just anyone.
Dayrell 10:20 am on October 19, 2005 | # |
I’m glad you went TMI today April. You have a lot of us taking notes. LOL.
Betty 1:23 pm on October 19, 2005 | # |
FANTASTIC POST!! I’m so in love with your honesty. The “carrot” remark made me giggle. lol
I didn’t even know cranberry came in pill form. Definitely good to know!
trench 5:16 pm on October 19, 2005 | # |
yep. Besides the sex on this topic, Cranberry Juice is great stuff!
kristin 10:08 pm on October 19, 2005 | # |
LOL… “too much info” the post should be titled: “Don’t read if you’re a guy”
ANYWAYS… on to my “too my info” I’ve had the same problem ever since I had my first baby. I had a kidney infection with him and it’s been about 6 years and I still feel like my bladder is weak…. not that I pee my pants or anything lol… but if it hits me i have to go ASAP! Kinda makes me feel like an old lady haha…
As for a bladder infection… the best thing to do is find some cranberry juice with a low amount of sugar, and just chug a gallon of it in one day. That’s what I always do.
When I was in college I never went to the doctor ^.^
Myisha 10:30 pm on October 19, 2005 | # |
I hope your bladder problems clear up.I’ve never drunk cranberry juice before,but I have heard it was good for the bladder.
Kugan 11:37 pm on October 19, 2005 | # |
You said that Kris “carrot” is really big and your worried about the after-pain and such. Do u use a lubricant during sex? Previously, when I was having sex with my gf, there used to be too much friction which then caused some sorta burning sensation the next day but now that I use KY Jelly, its been a really smooth ride always.
KAMYLO 12:17 am on October 20, 2005 | # |
I really like your blog!! and I liked the bladder story, actually my sister in law just got married and she expend half of her honeymoon with the same problem, we overnight her some antibiotics, and she drunk 4 gallons of cranberry!!!… I’ll be passing by here often!!
chicas de rbd desnuda 2:15 am on July 24, 2009 | # |
any changes coming ?