I can’t wait until both my husband and I get decent jobs that pay a “living wage” so that we don’t have to continue to live paycheck to paycheck. I mean, I know things will go right once we finish college. Kris has one and a half more years to go with his degree in computer engineering technology where he will be able to get a job at such places as Dell, Texas Instruments, Microsoft, or any other place where there is a need for computer engineers. Once I finish college, I’ll be able to work anywhere where there is a need for a mental health therapist like in a hospital, mental institution, public school, etc. On the other hand, I have a strong love for public policy as well, so, I’ll have to see if there is a way I can either choose or combine the two. Only time will tell. I mean, I love grassroots activism, but I also love giving therapy to people. It’s a hard decision that will take time and contemplation. Heck, I’ve even considered academia; thus, the skies the limit when it comes to the possibilites of what I can do with higher education.
Let me break down what the bills are like for me. I am fortunate right now to have earned $700 bucks in two weeks because we don’t have a director for the Women’s Resource Center yet. So right now, I’m able to work 35 hours a week as opposed to only 20. Kris worked almost 40 hours each week for a grand total of $430 in earnings (I know. . . pitiful). Our rent is $370, but Kris has done so much fixing up the house, so he recently asked our landlord if the rent could be reduced to $300, and he said that was cool ((sigh of relief)). My one statistics course is $968, and I paid a third of it. Our T-Mobile 3,000 minute family plan for our two cell phones is $150. The internet bill is $40. Shaq’s Sylvan Learning Center is $200 for two weeks (two hours per week), but we were lucky that we got the first two lessons free (Shaq starts Sylvan this upcoming week). All in all, if you count up how much we earn minus what our bills are, there is very little left. There’s about $100 we have left for groceries for the next two weeks to feed three people; and honestly, that’s not too bad. We’ve been in worse situations, and if you’ve been reading this blog since the summer of last year, you’ll know what I mean.
Of course, I’ll be getting friends of mine online that will say “Oh April, you shouldn’t have to be obligated to pay for your brother’s schooling . . . only worry about you and Kris” or “April, that cell phone bill is way too high! There’s no need for that kind of luxury” or even better “April, high speed internet with earthlink . . . you could be saving that money for something else”. Yeah, I could save an extra $390, but why? I’m already poor as it is, and if we didn’t have cell phones, high speed internet (and the free cable t.v. that comes with it), and pay for Shaq’s schooling, we would be completely miserable.
I wouldn’t be able to have fun blogging or catch up on blogs or the news whenever I wanted to. Kris wouldn’t be able to download movies for us to watch on our t.v., because we can’t afford to go to the movies. Without cell phones, we would constantly be wondering what each of us is doing when the other is away. Without cell phones, we wouldn’t be able to comfort each other from miles and miles away. Without our T-Mobiles we wouldn’t be able to contact anyone that we care about. Without Sylvan, Shaq would be a sitting duck in school . . . and that wouldn’t be right. He needs the opportunity to finish college so that he can become whatever he wants to be.
Is saving $390 and investing it into companies better, or investing that money into our well beings a better investment? I go for human capital any day.
UPDATE: We changed our T-Mobile plan from $129.00 to 69.99 for 1,000 minutes, because we realized that we never used all of our 3,000 minutes. The only setback is that we had to extend the contract for another year.